Transition

transition - trudean haye

It’s been awhile since my last blog post. Honestly so much has happened in my life that I needed to take a break. At the end of May I announced I was taking some time off because I felt like I was at my breaking point. No amount of positive affirmations can prepare you to handle the emotional and mental struggles you’re going through. Recovering from my miscarriage in August…

Hello May, Goodbye April

Trudean Haye

It’s gonna be MAY… I know,  so corny but hey, we still love it nevertheless. May 2018, first, where did April went? I feel like April just came and went while I was on a standstill. I’m so grateful to all those that read my blog and find inspiration and encouragement. I want to be as open with you all as much as possible because, I truly believer the more…

It’s OK To Not Be OK

Trudean Haye

“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather. Try to understand the blackness, lethargy, hopelessness, and loneliness they’re going through. Be there for them when they come through the other side. It’s hard to be a friend to someone who’s depressed, but it is one of the kindest, noblest, and…

The Process

Trudean Haye- The Process

Growing up, I would often hear the phrase; “ trust the process” and I’ve always believed in trusting the process of anything that’s going on in my life.  Things happening in our lives or around us and while we may not understand it, we “trust the process.” But lately, this process has been difficult and I’m having a hard time trusting it.  I question myself. “What’s going to happen next?’…

Somewhere I Belong

Somewhere I Belong

Growing up I always felt like an outcast. I was always weird. I found out I was adopted at a young age, it didn’t mean much to me back then because I was young but later in life I found out my biological mom had many more kids after me and that I was the only one put up for adoption. I felt unwanted as a kid and even as…

I Had A Miscarriage

I Had A Miscarriage

Recently I shared via periscope a personal experience. At first I wasn’t going to make a blog post about it but then I realized that just like me, many women suffers in silence and it’s time we break that cycle.   Having a miscarriage isn’t something we should be ashamed about and even though we may not always know how to control the emotions we feel doesn’t mean you should…

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  • I remember the first time I ever cut my hair. How scared I was but the moment I saw hair falling as my stylist sipping away, I felt free and endearing. 
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It was like falling in love with myself on a whole different level 
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Then I went back and told her to cut it all off but only leave the top. 
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I felt powerful, free and a complete bad ass. 
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This moment in my life was when I found myself. I was 23 years old. 
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I didnt want to fit in, I didnt care who didnt like my hair or my style. Approval and opinions didn't matter. I stopped being what was expexted of me and started being true to myself. All because I cut my hair. 
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This week has been a reflective one. I'm falling in love all over again.
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#lettinggo #movingon #selflove #reflection #fallinginlove #growth #acceptance #blackgirlsmagic #jamaicangirl #haircut
  • My baby is 4 years old today. 😭😭😭😭 where did the time go. @misz_model!!! __
Happy Birthday to my beautiful goddaughter Ari. You're so smart and full of personality. Looking forward to spending more time with you this year.
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I love you 
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#goddaughter #birthdaygirl #mybaby
  • Happy Birthday to my babe! @gogoleopard 
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You're one of the hardest working mua I know. Continue reaching for the stars. 
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So proud of you. Todays your day, party like a rockstar! Drinks on me when we link up next time. 😘😘😘😘
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#birthdaygirl #blackgirlsmagic
  • Found some old flash drive and came across 16 years old me. 
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Looking back at this photo, at 16 years old my life changed drastically. I never thought 28 was a age I was see. Never thought I would've made it through the storms I was in.
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Looking back at her, i just wanna hold her and tell her everything is going to be ok. Those storms made you stronger.  #notestomyself #reflection
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#sidenote I've always been a bear mom 😂😂😂😂