Recent singer Solange open up about her separation from her husband and the internet went into overdrive. I’ve read some comments about how people were disappointed, some people said they weren’t surprised, etc…

The truth is everything she opened up about resonated with me so much because I’m also separated from husband and not many people know. Well, now you do.

I recently shared with a friend that my husband and I were separated and has been for over a year now. They expressed how “disappointed” they were and how our wedding was a “waste”.

No one knows the future.

One of the reasons why I haven’t made a public statement about my ex-husband and I is, no one no matter how close you are to them will understand.

The honest Tru-th is, I love my ex-husband and I always will. I don’t regret my life with him or the fact that we got married. I don’t see it as a waste nor do I felt like I made a mistake. Life often takes us by surprise and sometimes some things are just out of our control.

Going through a separation was a hard thing to live through but I also had to learn to be true to myself and let go. And letting go was the hardest part.

Looking back over the last year of my life, I can honestly say I am so happy and I have no regrets that we’re no longer together. My ex-husband and I are great friends. We had to take some time to heal ourselves. And in a way we’re still healing.

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned during this experience is, you have to do what’s best for you no matter what. People on the outside looking in will always have an opinion about how you should live your life and what’s best for you or the type of relationship you should have.

Life is a journey. The journey is yours no matter what road you take or decisions you made.

Sometimes we stay in situations out of fear of the unknown, fear of starting over, fear of what others might think or how they perceive you.

Don’t let fear stop you for being truly happy.

“may all of your transitions no matter how big or small, be kind to you and filled with incredible love and light!” – Solange.

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  1. Sometimes things just dont work out babygirl. Keep that beautiful smile on your face and keep moving forward. Things will work out.

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