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Day 3: You Didn’t Fail

31 days of self love

Not because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you failed.

Life is a constant journey. We’re forever growing and evolving. Often time when life doesn’t go as planned we beat ourselves up about it. We ask ourselves what when wrong and did we fail.

Last year my world came crashing down when I found myself going through a separation. I couldn’t understand why it was happening and I felt like a failure. I was in a state of depression trying to wrap my head around what was happening in my life. After all, this wasn’t the plan I had.

What do you do when life doesn’t go as planned?

It took awhile for me to accept that just because the life I had envisioned didn’t worked out didn’t mean I was a failure.

I felt defeated and disappointed.

Where did I go from here? How was I going to move on?

I knew starting over wasn’t going to be easy but I also had to accept that starting over was okay.

Life is a journey and something we’re going to run into detours. But don’t let those detours stop you from moving forward.

 

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